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Peace Of Mind Comes
With Being Prepared

by Alice Reiter Feld, Esq.  

       We all know the longstanding motto of the Boy Scouts is “Be Prepared.” The obvious reason is to encourage scouts to be prepared—mentally, physically and emotionally—to take care of themselves during life and in an emergency.
       Teaching our children practical survival skills is an important lifetime lesson. But often we don’t practice what we preach.

There are also practical survival skills for handling long-term care issues. Are you and your family mentally, emotionally, legally and financially prepared in case a family member needs long term care? Can you act promptly? Do you have a plan?
       The following is an overview of the important issues Elder Law attorneys will discuss with you in advance of crisis. It is our goal to provide important survival skills and create a plan for peace of mind. The plan will include discussions of these four areas:

Family dynamics
       I start with this issue because successfully managing the long-term care of a family member can be stressful and difficult on the family. A comprehensive discussion on long-term care should address the family dynamics and any problems or tensions that may arise.

Legal Issues
       It may seem obvious that everyone should have all their legal documents in place and updated but I can assure you that it is the exception, not the rule. In addition to addressing inheritance issues, we address making a will or trust as appropriate. We also ensure that Advance Directives (Durable Power of Attorney and Living Will) are completed. These documents may look like forms that can be downloaded but in fact it is very important that they be complete and include specific powers to do every act that may be needed. A general statement that the “agent can do any act that I can do” will not suffice under Florida law, but more importantly will not be recognized by many of the institutions you may present it to.

Financial Issues
       How do we pay for long term care? Insurance, private pay, public benefits? Proper planning should include a discussion of public benefits available for long term care. Many people assume that they are not eligible for Medicaid, veteran’s benefits or other programs or they do not know what they are entitled to or how to access them fully. Additionally, families must learn how to maximize already existing insurances such as long term care insurance, Medicare, medigap insurance or an HMO.

Social, Caregiver and Advocacy Issues
       This entails a review of other community resources and programs and where the family can learn more. This will include housing options, caregiver options, funeral arrangements and care managers.
       In future articles we will discuss each of these matters in more detail. For now, if Charley, Frances, Ivan and Jeanne have taught us anything, it is to “be prepared.” Having preparations in place gave us peace of mind and helped us to weather the storm.

Alice Reiter Feld, board certified in Elder Law by the State of Florida, has offices in Ft. Lauderdale, Delray Beach and Tamarac. E-mail her at reiterfeld@theparklander.com



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